Easily suspicious or jealous of her husband maybe because you do not understand very well about men. The reason is, there are some male traits that are rather difficult for women to understand. Try to understand these things so you can get to know your partner better.
Quarrels in the household are often triggered by misunderstandings. That in itself might happen because we don't know very well who our partner is. In order to avoid serious problems in marriage only due to misunderstanding, let's know what men really think.
Get to Know Your Husband Deeper
The following are some things that many women may not know about men:
1. Very committed
Men are often labeled as not committed. In fact, when a man has decided to commit and get married, he is really serious about doing it. He just needed time to ascertain whether the choice was right or not.
2. Want to have time for himself
Getting married does not mean you are obliged to always spend time together every day of the week. You need to give him time for himself, like doing his hobbies or hanging out with his friends. Not only husband, you also need to spend time for yourself.
3. Men express love with action
If your husband rarely says "love" to you, don't immediately assume he does not love or love you. Some men do prefer to express their love by action. For example, helping to tidy up the house or invite you to dinner together.
4. Easily forget the problem
You are still upset with the debate that occurred last night, and still want to discuss it the next day? Better forget it.
Psychologically, women are more likely to remember and be absorbed in things that make them sad or stressed. Conversely, men are easy to forget and do not want to bring up such things.
5. Can not read 'code'
Actually men are happy if they can make their wives happy. For him, that was very important. However, this can be difficult if the wife does not convey her wishes directly and clearly.
Because, not all men are able to read the "code" that women give. So, from now on just express all the things that are in your heart clearly to your husband.
6. Happy if praised
When your husband does something to make you happy, give him a compliment. Appreciation from you can make him happier and wiser in acting. Even according to one study, the involvement of a husband in caring for children can increase if the wife gives praise for her efforts.
7. Not only about sex
It's no secret that men almost always think of sex. However, that cannot always be realized in action. The reason is, men are not always ready to have sex, especially if he is having a pile of work or other things that make him stressful.
8. It's nice if you ask her to make love first
One of the mistakes of women is not daring to invite their husbands to make love first. In fact, men really like it if you do it. Men like to be chased and led by women on this one matter. In order to make your husband more excited, you can seduce him when you want to love.
9. It's important to make him feel loved
You have to be careful when a man feels himself unloved and under-cared for by his partner. He might seek satisfaction through something else. Satisfaction that he might be able to play video games with no time, work late into the night, and do not rule out the possibility of having an affair.
In essence, the key to a relationship is communication. So from now on, build better communication with your husband. If you and your partner have problems in household matters and find it difficult to find common ground, don't hesitate to consult a psychologist and undergo marriage counseling.
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